Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Maxims Of Conversation

Quantity:
  • Say no more or less than the conversation requires.
  • Learn to listen as least as much as you talk.
  • Pause. Try it on; ponder someone's point so that you feel it.
  • Let air in; its ok for pauses to appear.

Quality:

  • Don’t say what you believe to be false.
  • Don’t say things for which you lack evidence.
  • Learn your own bad logical habits.

Manner:

  • Engage; eye contact, let distractions buzz like flies. Stay on target.
  • Don’t be obscure.
  • Don’t be ambiguous.
  • Be brief.
  • Be orderly.
  • Check your ego at the door.
  • Smile when you can; it creates a connection.

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